The way is not in the sky. The way is in the
heart.
Buddha

Often
there are situations within houses that make it difficult for us live in
them peacefully.
There
are a variety of reasons for this. Sometimes houses can retain a
sort of photo recording of other people and other times, that have lived
in them in the, this can sometimes cause disturbance to the present
occupiers.
These
are not true ‘ hauntings’ but simply a sort of photo image that is left
on the very fabric of the building itself. A simple cleansing will
sometimes clear this in the same way that any videotape can be wiped and
re-recorded on, what we need to do here is wipe away the old impressions
and instale our own, of peace calm and contentment.
Others
are true hauntings, where someone has passed over either in the house,
or some way associated with it or the place where it is built, and is
unable to find rest or to move on into the Light. Again a simple
cleansing and request to the unsettled spirit to move on, done in a
gentle and positive way, will usually do the trick, it is quite unusual
to find hauntings that cannot be taken care of easily and gently in this
way. But if you do sense something that is very disruptive or
frightening you in some way, then it's better to bring in someone who is
skilled in the way of exorcism, because this is what will need to be
performed, this is also often the case where a house has been built on
an ancient burial site, where the spirit are disturbed and displeased.
But we are not concerned with exorcism at this point.
The
simplest way to do a cleansing for your home, whether it is because you
feel there is a presence within it that you wish was not there, or
because something unpleasant has happened in it recently, and you
would like to cleanse it and make it feels safe and good again, is to
gather together the following ingredients:-
Small
nightlights or white candles (plus holders enough for every room)
Incense.
Charged
water and salt mixture (separate bowls with a small amount of water in
one and plain salt in the other)
Prayer
or Ritual
Depending on what your religious persuasion is (or isn't!) Gently pour
the water into the salt, adding a prayer or invocation. (Here is
an example of what I would say as a pagan)
"May
the blending of these elements pure salt to preserve the sanctity and
pure water cleanse this space," in the Name of the Goddess" (here
add your own prayer or finish the invocation to whichever deity you
prefer)
Do
this in a Sacred and meaningful way, in the knowledge that you are
creating a powerful medicine to cleanse and heal your home.
Now
take the water and either using your fingers or a little brush, sprinkle
the holy water around the walls of every room every door and every
window, and when you have finished making sure that everywhere has been
treated, Pour the remaining salt/water mixture in a line in front of any
doors leading in and out of the building.
Now go
back into the house, and in each room light a small white candle and
some incense, leaving both to burn out to the end.
When
you have finished, it is also beneficial to take a bunch of fresh
flowers into the main room of the house.
This
will cleanse your house making it happy and peaceful!